Oakland Park, FL 33308
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COMING TO TALK, COMING TO HEAL, COMING TO GROW
COMING TRUE
Coming out Later in Life
"I am married to a someone I do love. We have children we adore and built a life that hums along with normal ups and downs. I also have a truth about myself that I have done everything I can think of to suppress and run away from. I am overwhelmed with fear and I cannot see any way through this…"
If this describes where you are at in life, you are not the first and will not be the last to find yourself in what seems to be a no-win situation. Understanding how and why people find themselves in such a struggle is complex and not quickly or easily explained. The emotional and psychological toll of hiding this reality often becomes overwhelming for all involved. Stepping into truth with grace, respect, and dignity for all, can lead to a better place in the end.
Coming True: Seeking Truth in Self Later in Life
by William Brown, LMHC, LPC
Individual Counseling
I provide individual counseling to men who are or have come to accept their sexual identity as gay or bisexual, often after living publicly in adulthood as straight. Many married women at some point, and many have children. This transition to self acceptance and choices that may follow is unique and nuanced, and finding professional help with someone well-versed in this process is paramount. I bring more than ten years of experience counseling men in this situation, and it is part of my personal story as well. This work and life experience led to the book I wrote on this subject - Coming True: Seeking Truth in Self Later in Life.
The first part of individual work is taking time to understand how we got here and what is really my truth. The next phase is decision making. What changes, if any, do I need to make. There is not a one-size fits all answer here, and it takes time to really explore all the options. I create a safe space to fully open up and talk through every aspect of this journey. Together we will develop a plan to move forward in truth one step at a time.
Individual Coaching
For anyone living outside of Florida or Georgia, one-on-one video coaching is available for men going through the coming out later process. Coaching is distinctive to counseling in that we focus on today and tomorrow. I provide structure, planning, and motivation as one considers their options. If other issues in the mental health realm appear, I can provide some context and options for seeking professional counseling in your home area. This kind of identity shift holds deep nuances, and it can be difficult to find professionals with the expertise to work through the various aspects involved. Even if you have a counselor you love, feel free to reach out for any additional support focused on the ins and outs of coming true around self and sexuality.
Coaching topics include:
Understanding the journey
How and what to say to spouse, kids, family, and friends
How to manage personal and professional boundaries
Dating and Sex
Faith Challenges
Decision points for change
If you are interested in learning more about coaching, click on the "Schedule Now" button. You will be taken to my client portal where you can request an initial free 30-minute phone consultation, or if you are ready, schedule an initial 90-minute coaching session.
Group Counseling
"Out Late" is group therapy for men coming out later in life. Sitting with others on this same path can be transformative and incredibly healing. The group dynamic builds community, confidence, and a place of hope during some daunting transitions. In the group setting, we address all aspects of this journey. Some people join before they have ever told anyone about this truth, and some have already come out but want support in developing their new life. In-person and virtual groups are forming now. We meet weekly for 90 minutes at a cost of $75 per session. Many men find this experience to be invaluable.
If you are interested in joining, give me a call or text at 770-828-5441. I will conduct a free one hour phone interview to assess if this is the right fit for your needs. The group is limited to 6 members, so there may be a waitlist at times. All prospective members must complete the phone interview before going, so reach out as soon as you can.